Giving Thanks Year Round

Thanksgiving is a beautiful holiday here in the US we all come together with friends and family and hopeful are thankful for all we have, but why keep it to just one day?  To me Thanksgiving is a important reminder a beacon that should set off a light that hey look at all this love in my life.  The most important thing to me is family on this day and just about everyone the rest of the year.  The family I was born with and the other ones I choose to be part of.  With all the money and things in the world they are empty unless I have people to share it with but on the other hand I don’t need much material things if I have good relationships and loving people in my life.  To me giving thanks for the people around me is an action.  I need to treat these people with love and respect.  Show them what they mean to me and let them know.  I might even put my selfish desires to the side and sacrifice a little to give them what they need and not what I think they need.  To be thankful and live at least a small portion of everyday helping people is to truly be alive.

Peace Love Das

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The Spirituality of Silliness

Number one spiritual rule you are not that important and for that matter either am I.  I know I know but I’m all I think about and yes that is the problem.  We take ourselves too seriously on a long enough time line that major problem effecting you right now, most of the time wont be a big deal in a couple of weeks.  When we are focused on ourselves everything negative seems to be pointing at us and only effecting us.  But, but what am I to do?  Enter the art of silliness, yes silliness.  But I’m too serious for that, yes and that’s the problem.  Many times just doing something silly will keep you completely in the moment.  The way kids are when they tilt their head back and spin in circles till they fall down in laughter.  But what are some examples of silliness you might ask, well I will give you a couple that will brighten everyday.  Impromptu dance parties for one, supermarkets are an especially good place to get down and shake your groove thing.  What if people laugh at me?  Well if they do your doing it right besides who can resist the fine music they play at the supermarket.  I started cutting a rug at shoprite at a young age and for many years I had no dance partner, now I have a steady one and she can bust it down with the best of them.  My best friend has also been known to break out some extremely strange walking through a restaurant another good spiritual tool especially when there are three off us in a row walking with the spirit of the 70’s.  You can take it to all kinds of levels sometimes I drive around listening to cheesy music with my windows down dancing or making funny faces at people they laugh I laugh and a good time is had by all.  Not only does this kind of behaviour work on a normal day but it can work to lift you up in the worst of times.  A couple of years ago I was in a pretty bad space and had a lot of life situations happening.  My sister came over and was going through similar life stuff so we went out to do some shopping.  While at a store I came across a kids blanket, it was a fleece blanket with a monkey hood, a tail and little monkey hands.  I had it on the whole time we were in the store and my sister purchased it for me.  It made me happy and gave a kick to those around me.  Many times in the coming months life kept happening and not in a good way for me so I would walk over to my closet and put my monkey blanket on and go look at my silly ass in the mirror, instant joy.  I couldn’t take myself seriously looking in the mirror and that was a good thing, put a smile on my face and let me know with enough work or silliness I can be happy in most situations.  Not to mention it gave birth to making faces at myself in the mirror which is another tool of the spirituality of silliness.

What do you do to break the tension in your own life?  Do you get silly from time to time?  Always looking to add to my silly hand bag.

Have a silly day may it be laughable

Peace Love Das

The word of God

I was up again well into the night thinking about god, like ya do. Anyone who knows me can tell you there are many books around my house discussing religion, spirituality and the like. There are also many books people consider scripture and divinely inspired by god (I don’t doubt it). I believe that with the ego in check anyone yes anyone can be a conduit for the divine.  I can go from reading the bible to the bagavad gita to a number of spiritual text in a short period of time. To me it doesn’t matter where these works come from if they help me in my life and speak the truth I can dig it. I do know many people who can’t and it’s not just a preference for 1 religion or another. They down right write these works off if they don’t come from their own religion or what they were raised with.  I think that sad  and not the aim of religion at all. It’s not meant to separate us on our differences but to bring us together to show is a way to live together divinely inspired.  For me these works keep me on the right track and focused on where I want to go. I sure do have my favorites and ones I recommend often but I would never put down anyone elses favorites. What about you do you look for inspiration from anywhere or do you need it from a certain source?  While we are at it what’s your favorite source?  Music? Scripture? Poems? Or do you look to your own heart for inspiration?

Peace Love Das

God bless you

God Bless You, we hear it everyday most of us probably say it once a day.  Do you mean it?  Is there thought or emotion behind it or is it just of the things we are programmed to say.  Ring the bell mouth waters type of thing.  I think God does bless us and not just you or me or the good people but all of us.  So why do we say it?  To me its a reminder that God blesses us and that we are part of God and have the ability to spread this Love this God if you will to others, but I think you got to mean it have some energy behind it.  There are many things I try to really relate to the spiritual many mundane things to ring the bell, sound the gong in my brain, that hey pay attention life is pretty cool if you look around.  I really do think this God bless you business has lost its flair and really can be used as a spiritual tool but that’s just me.

 

 

Peace Love Das

“If God is for us, who can be against us?”

“If God is for us, who can be against us?”, I hear this line quoted a lot also misquoted a lot and usually as a battle cry and I think completely missing the point of it.  I admit it when I was younger and much less spiritual I felt the same way about it I think a lot of people do.  That if God is on our side, and I’m not saying a specific God though this is from the bible, then none of the people who are against us have a chance.  Luckily I got past that stage in my life and that way of thinking.  I know think the whole point of the quote is that nobody is against us.  If God is in fact for us I would tend to think that we are for God as well or rather we have him/her/it in our hearts.  If that is the case then I think we would tend to realize that all things are God as well as all people.  If I truly have God in my heart I have no enemies but brothers and sisters, disagreements yes misunderstandings, you bet but these people are not my enemies but a reflection of God.  Plus I really don’t think God is against anyone, I believe and prefect divine love and enough to go around.  I don’t think God hates anyone if he/she/it did what kind of God would that be?

 

What do you think? Am I completely of my rocker on this one?

 

Peace Love Das

Keeping A Spiritual Mindset

So I’m sitting hear looking at the altar that stands tall in my bedroom the smell of some incense burning and flames from candles flickering back and forth.  It’s very easy for me to be in a spiritual mindset in my apartment no matter where I am which is all well and good but it dosen’t mean a thing unless I bring that peace, tranquility and love out into the world.  I often think about this, it’s very easy to forget your lofty goals when you jump behind the wheel of your car and somebody cuts you off.  A lot harder to keep your ego incheck when it is in fact being checked by outside circumstances and people.  It’s easy to be a good christian at church, a good hindu at temple, a good wiccan at ritual a good well you get the point and the point is the goal of religions, well one of the goals is to better its members.  I think just about everyone has that potential but you and I are missing the boat if we don’t take it with us.

 

There are many things I do to help especially when I first started trying to keep my cool in all situations, not just for everyone else but for myself too.  Most days before I leave the house I do some repeat some mantras which helps cause if you keep this practice going when your out and about it repeats in the background of your mind.  Hard to complete the act of flipping off the guy who cut you off when the mantra chimes back in.  I also try to wear some type of religious medallion around my neck.  Not a big one that stands out or anything usually worn under my shirt because hey its for me.  When my days get off to a bad start I wear a full 108 bead mala(prayer beads).  The mala is hard to forget your wearing it cause you can feel it most of the time and that’s a good reminder.  On those extra bad days, hey I don’t have them often but they do come up, I wear a rosewood mala which is a constant reminder cause im allergic to them but hey keeps my mind focused on the thought just cause I feel like I’m going to hell does not mean I got to take everybody with me.

 

So these are just some of the things I do to bridge the gap and make an easier transition of bringing my spirituality out from wear it lives to where everyone else lives.  Which I hope helps everyone including me.  So what do you do to keep yourself spiritually focused?

 

Peace Love Das

Sacred Space

Another day is in the books spent most of the day cleaning and organizing my apartment. I feel much better when its clean and put away. Much of my place is filled with religious/spiritual stuff a reminder of the goals I’m trying to reach and the way I want to live my life. I like my place to have the vibrational energy of a nice church. I haven’t had a place that has felt like that in some time but I’m moving in the right direction. The one place I had that really hummed was a small studio I moved into at a very low point in my life. I was there with no furniture sleeping on the floor in a sleeping bag and spent a lot of time in deep meditation and reading scriptures from various religions. While the place got some furniture eventually, my best friend had to sit me down and tell me I needed a bed, the place really felt like home cuase it was used frequently for spiritual things. People would come in to hang out and the talks went to a spiritual place most times. I will get my current living arrangement to feel like that just takes some time.

What makes your home feel like home?  I would like to know how you bring the things that are important to you out in your living space.

Peace Love Das

Getting back in the swing of things

Its Friday night and I’m at the keyboard clicking away and taking care of some stuff after a long couple weeks.  Been feeling a little off lately as I used to help a couple of people and them seem to have moved on from my life.  I really believe all the spirituality and the meditation and reading is for shit if I’m not helping others.  Lets face it if I’m being honest with myself there is no shortage of people to help whether it be in my family, my community or across the world.  Just got to take the time to do it and I find it’s always worth the time.

This page fell into my lap tonight http://www.giveforward.com/avarasmussensfund and if you are in the same spot looking for a place to start helping people after some time off it is a good place to start.

May Love Guide Your Actions

PeaceLoveDas

Helping Others

Another Saturday comes to a close most of it was spent helping my best friend and his soon to be wife(also a good friend) move into their new house. It was good to get out and think about someone else and help them with their needs without thought of repayment. I find nothing makes the world more painful than thinking about yourself all the time and a lot of the remedy for that is to lend a helping hand no matter how small. I can’t always change the world but I can out a smile on someones face and if that’s repeated enough it might just change the world. I have a belief that if you help others God, Buddha, Lord Shiva, the all or the boggie man what ever you believe in will take care of you.

Hope the weekend finds you well with a smile on your face.

Peace Love Das